Finish What You Start…

June

It’s hard to believe June is here. A year ago, I was packing and moving out of Chicago. While most blogs are focusing on beaches, manicures and pedicures or swimsuits, I choose to focus on unfinished business.

A busy month in May included a brief visit to Internet Week to see founder Matt Mullenweg speak and a behind the scenes planning drama of a sample sale at  Botkier. Ironically, a farm vacation getaway with no access to media reminded me of the value of time and accomplishment. Shortly after the tragedy in Oklahoma, rain storms swept New York all day continuously leaving us trapped indoors.  In the world of speed and variety, there are so many things left unfinished.

This summer, finish that book you need to finish, call that friend you have been meaning to call, and finish that home improvement project you left awhile back.

June will represent more style, and a bit of #wanderlusting in the city.

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Maybe we could pray or rally our way to safer America. The scope of recent events at the Boston Marathon ignited shock and helplessness. Our hearts and minds were still healing from Newtown, CT. The only thoughts which ran through my mind was wishing the event never happened at all. Also, what pleasure someone would receive from physically harming people with the intention to kill.  For the first time, I truly do not feel safe in this country. 

When I listened to President Obama’s words at the Intefaith Memorial Services on the race of life, and we must continue to run, it resonated with me some impressionable words from a wise man. 

“Life is race and we must keep running to be adorned with the crown of victory.” 

In the midst of all these tragedies which are becoming frequent as of late, we can never accept defeat. This applies to virtually any challenge. For all of us whose hearts have been broken or feeling that our simple pleasures of being able to watch a movie, learn in school or run a marathon have been taken away, don’t give up.  We must continue to run in the race of life no matter what comes our way. 

- RM

April & Ready for Summer…

April Sandals

Above: Wedge-lace-up sandals from an independent Soho Boutique, $30

Somehow, from October through April, the weather has been miserable with fluctuating temps, snow storms and a hurricane.

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Hanging Bulbs, Architectural Digest Home Design Show.

I am so anxious to wear sandals again. Much like the weather, the news has been all over the map from a NYC convicted cannibal cop to gay rights and more gun control.  There’s never a dull moment. Apart from fashion, I ventured out more into broadcast media and Broadway.  The first stop took me to ABC headquarters for Kelly and Michael to meet their Executive and Associate Producers for a live filming of their show. I also made a visit to the Daily Show and met with producers and writers to get a closer look at the the behind the scenes scramble to get the show on the road with Eva Mendez. Ending the week with Jon Stewart tied all the political coverage surrounding gay marriage perfectly.

Botkier, NYC’s chic, designer handbags was my next stop with exciting Summer and Fall 2o13 designs on the way.  I was also able to find the best authentic vintage pre-70s right in Astoria at Pin-Up Queens. What would March be without Art? Architectural Digest’s Home Design Show came to New York with new trends including a creative Benjamin Moore sponsored paint bucket tabletop design and Japanese tissue paper art.  I ended the month on Easter day with philosophical thoughts stemming from a new musical ‘Click, Clack Moo’ directed by Tony Award winner John Rando, and a lecture at the Kadampa  Meditation Center.

Click Clack Moo’s story on how farm cows transform into tech junkies with some ethical considerations to follow from their owners was inspiring.  The outcome of the meditation revealed that suffering is a part of life that all beings must rewire their brains to adapt to this fact with a positive attitude. Unfortunately, cows fighting for their rights via typed communications was in direct conflict with Kadampa’s message.

For this month, I have decided to showcase DIY  in both dessert and fashion and some style watches here and there. In between,  will be a trip to Saveur Magazine to meet with Editors, NYC Greenfest and possibly a partake in National Pillow Fight Day. Stay warm! We are almost there:) Happy April!!

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Live Filming of Kelly & Michael at ABC HQ.

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March: 1/4 of the Way in!

March NYC

New York City captured by an artist with autism, Outsider Art Fair 2013

Fashion Week came and went, Social Media Week, NYC Veggie Fest, and the ‘Sequester’ as the cherry on top as we hit February’s end. A start in March with a raise in transit fares from 2011 was perhaps not the best way to start the month with many angry New Yorkers.  It reminds me of a spiritual translation of a historic story’s saying: time waits for no one.

This March takes a change in focus. Many exhibitions are popping up deserving noteworthy attention in fashion around the best museums in the city. On a flip side, I will take some time to explore performance and broadcasting: a bridge between Off-Broadway and meeting with some television producers. A luxury bag company may come to the picture which has been gaining tremendous popularity lately. Whether there is fashion or inspiration, I will be sure to find it and share it. There will be some running fashion themes and 2 more interviews for the month pertaining to art and fashion.

Also, I just learned to make a decent tofu scramble. Happy March everyone!

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February: Happy 100 Years Grand Central!

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Today marks the 100th year anniversary celebrating Grand Central, yet also marks the death of one of our most influential New Yorkers former Mayor Ed Koch. Koch was infamous for saying, “How’M I Doin?,” during press conferences. He was always ears for criticism yet was feisty enough to punch back. In partnership with former First Lady Jackie Kennedy Onassis among other supporters, he fought a 10 year battle which traveled all the way to the Supreme Court to save our city’s precious landmark from demolition. Grand Central is perhaps one of our most beautiful relics of the past. Just walking through this building gives me tingles. I am ever so grateful for Koch for leaving his mark in this city.

As we head into February, Valentine’s day is the first thought that comes to mind.

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Baseball Tee, Forever 21

I know many girls love drummers like myself so rather than wearing the stereotypical red this year, why not express it via graphic tee? The last three Valentine’s days were spent stuffing my face with meatless tamales in a small eatery in Chicago in 2012. My sister and I devoured succulent gnocchi and the ‘Valentine’s Day’ chick flick in 2011 in New York and in 2010, I recall a very pseudo lesbian dinner with my best friend at Acquivit in New York. A common theme appears to be stuffing my face with my favorite foods on February 14th. How will I spend this year? Probably chewing on a peanut butter chocolate heart. In those years, I was mildly nostalgic for not having a significant other so I celebrated sisterhood and friendship. In 2013, I can’t help but celebrating love in general. If we each loved our neighbors, friends, strangers and our communities just a little more sincerely, we will make this beautiful world an even better place. Up for February, we’ll have more boutiques, interviews and art!

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January with a Monk and a Ferrari.

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In the last 11 days of December I hit 20 cities in Europe. Trend spotting in Europe is slightly more fun anyhow. In places such as Croatia, fashion and culture come in harmony  during Saturday afternoons in the cafes. People put their sunglasses on and people watch and I was also one of them. 

Croatia handmade

Some of the highlights of the trip included picking up some authentic roadside olive oil, jogging across the waterfront in Opatija, Croatia and hiking up to the top of a Castle in Slovenia.

While traveling, I picked up a wonderful book. It’s not the level of writing which moved me so much as the lessons.

The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma represents reviving the spark to your life which often gets lost as we hit milestones and goals or take the safe route in life. As we enter January with new plans, visions and goals, I recommend to read this book to take along with you as you cross each accomplishment off your list.sharma

January @FC will represent more exploration of city trends, styles, boutiques and exhibitions and a slight change to website and content. Keep your eyes peeled!

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December Reflection: Where Did The Time Go?!!

To do lists, schedules and plans are sometimes self-defeating.

Vegan Peppermint Hot Chocolate.

Vegan Peppermint Hot Chocolate.

Anthro goodies

Anthropologie clearance goodies.

Off-blog, November was an exciting month and  broader from the world of Manolo Blahnik. My first stop  was to Major League’s Baseball’s Blogger Cave. I was able to meet with the best handpicked bloggers to report on their favorite teams in a sports cave gone wild. Even the dirt from the playing field is secured in jars. A quick jump down their fun slide and a visit to their underground VIP lounge was enough for me.

My next stop took me to the Huffington Post where I met Editors for Green, Celebrity & Business. Being able to watch a live broadcast and step into a busy newsroom was priceless. 

I also took a trip to Google where Scott Falzano, head of Media & Entertainment and his team shared their personal stories which lead them to Google. I helped myself to the Google goodie jar from one of their many barista kitchens. The month ended with an evening with Kate White, former Editor-In-Chief of Cosmopolitan Magazine which under her tenure for 14 years, the magazine was #1 in its division. In chatting with her afterwords, she had such a warm personality and a genuine interest to see women succeed.

Google offices NYC.

Google offices NYC.

Kate White

Kate White speaks @Fordham University in NYC on Nov 19, 2012.

On-blog, I have spent a vast part of November scoping cold weather style trends and key events in the city.  December will follow more trend watching, holiday treats and an exhibition or two. 

In the past, December meant acquisition and spending until you winded up broke in January. These past years, December has meant reflection.

In a nutshell, 2012 marked exploring a new field of possibilities, a change of address, re-uniting with long lost friends,  a departure from bad ties, weight loss, a smartphone, a love affair with the best vegan food truck on the East Coast, a voracious search for a high-tech camera, a trip to Croatia & Slovenia, a Hurricane, Thanksgiving in a restaurant on the upper West Side for the first time, and lots of reading and research. 

Apart from a year of reflection,  December marks our expectations for the year ahead both personally and professionally. So, when you have a moment, stop by Anthropologie. There’s a small multi-color notepad called the ‘Happy Pad.’ Each day, fill out one note and post it to a blank wall with the date on it. Anytime you get stuck or flustered in your path, look at all the beautiful notes you’ve written to guide your journey. Happy December!!

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November: Recovery, Election and Hot Chocolate.

At times like these, fashion and lifestyles took a temporary back seat.  November  represents getting back to a normal routine while supporting many residents including myself who’ve lost electricity, water or a full functioning transit system from ‘Sandy.’

A shortage of gas has swept the tri-state area pushing some people over the edge. Pulling out a gun on someone to secure gas? Not so unusual when I heard of an incident which occurred in Queens earlier this week. Perhaps the only good thing that came from this natural disaster was a temporary break from the political campaigning. 

Although I did not face much damage during this recent ‘Frankenstorm’,  my prayers and support go out to these residents who lost their homes.  These events help us appreciate the basics without all the frills. 

So as Election Day is coming, Fashion Couch will be getting back to gear from a slower October with some hot chocolate and more cold comfort fashion. Stay warm!

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October Loving…

One day, I was sweating in the hot sun and then it happened.  I was on my morning coffee run at Brooklyn Bagel and the cold wind blew right through me.

Fall is my favorite season for three reasons: Halloween, my birthday and Thanksgiving.  I like that the weather is just perfect. More importantly, it’s that time of year for pumpkin spice flavored everything. It’s the perfect down time after Fashion Week to just breathe and enjoy life!

September’s focus was “Fashion Appreciation Month.” It was great to partner with Scoop’s Online Director Jeffrey Cedeno to witness Zac Posen’s beautiful work and meet many artists such as Michelle Starbuck Designs & Right Brain Drifts at Renegrade Craft Fair this year in Chicago. I also was lucky enough to catch a behind the scenes look of an up and coming brand LEOTA at the MODA show in New York City.

October will be taking in the experience of life in both food & art. There will be food trucks, homemade desserts and fantasy art in the coming 4 weeks. A vintage boutique may be in the picture too.  

Keep reading and thank you for all your support!

Much Love, 

Rupa

September = Fashion Gone Wild…

At least gone wild in a good way. A planned one month  transitional period has spilled into September. The good news is the Diva Cave is starting to have a mood.

Perhaps I went over budget. Even so, it is amazing that the forces of nature will allow you to find the perfect re-sale loveseat or office chair in the depths of craigslist.org and the darkest corners of Astoria, NY where you least expected it. I am putting the final touches together with some DIY art.  More pics in the coming weeks of the final working space!

During these early weeks of September, from every major publication and media outlet apart from those fixated on the Republican and Democratic National Conventions, you will witness fashion appreciation at its very best and celebrities who promote them. I was sold by the covers of Bazaar ,Vogue and New York Magazine among many others featuring Lady Gaga, Gwen Stefani and Kim Kardashian. Of course, these spreads featured in-depth interviews regarding their style. September is all about fashion, designers, love for fashion, fashion week and post-fashion week commentary. These weeks will symbolize fashion overkill. This week kicks off with ‘Fashion’s Night Out’ events in retail stores. There were so many to choose from so I had to attend the one in which Zac Posen will actually make an appearance from one of my favorite brands Scoop NYC. Free cocktails and great music can’t hurt either. But for any one of you who love style and fashion, the buzz of these weeks bring much anticipation, excitement and good energy.  “A good type of stress,”as one colleague at Ogilvy & Mather use to tell me.

I have never attended Couture Fashion Week but I assume that it is nothing short of spectacular of New York’s Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week.

On another note, ‘Pretty Gorgeous’ is all booked up for Fashion Week and practiced some very cool make-up looks that she will be putting together. She managed to transform me into a non uni-browed Frida Kahlo sporting red lips and dark brows.

I can’t wait to see some of her work on the runways.

Stay tuned for a full overview of fashion, make-up and reviews. There’s a hot designer on the horizon named Andrés Aquino who is likely to steal the show…

Happy August: From Basement Studio to Diva Cave…

When my broker said basement studio, my first 2 words were ‘hell no!

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New York Basement Studio.

Trading in my spacious top floor Chicago apartment for a basement studio in New York at the same price was not an easy decision. However, clean and well-maintained vs. overpriced tiny one bedroom dump propelled me to make the decision to live underground for the first time.  While getting in gear for a busy September, the focus of the blog for the next few weeks will be to take the challenge of converting a rather bland and lifeless bachelor pad from the previous tenant and turning it into a creative diva cave where ideas can flourish. An attractive space is very important to me and has become a new obsession lately. I’ve explored all the possibilities with DIY remodeling. Although Home Depot in the past was usually a very short-lived trip, I probably spent half a day there researching all the different home improvement projects.  Am I ready to trade my high heels for a mini-sander? Not just yet. My goal will be to get very creative on both a budget and limited home styling experience. Stay tuned, things are about to get crafty in here…

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Poor Little Rich Girl.

Poor Little Rich Girl.

It is hard to believe that 2012 is halfway over. Time really does fly. June has been a whirlwind ride with a lot of changes and opportunities.  I was very happy to come across Layne Jones owner of ‘The Jones Fix’ and an amazing interior stylist. She introduced me to her world and home of design and her appreciation for Vanity Fair.

Jeffrey Cedeno  Scoop’s Online Creative Director, took us on a journey to his world  of design, fashion marketing and impeccable style. His sketches even inspired me to re-create my own shoe re-design project. 

Kelly Brinn fulfilled a search for edgier  independent brands which have been difficult to find. It was inspiring to learn of her personal journey towards finding her true passions as a designer. I am looking forward to fall season so I can finally snag one of her faux leather jackets. 

I also went on the prowl for cool and interesting new boutiques like Milk Handmade. In addition, I explored ‘old is gold.’ I managed to sneak a peek at Chanel Vintage and Vintage Bazaar. My final days in June were filled with eating at my favorite dives and exploring neighborhoods and galleries. I finally said goodbye to my dream apartment which gave me much warmth and happiness during my stay here in Chicago and to great friends. 

‘Poor Little Rich Girl’ is ironically  the name of the signature Essie brand nail polish I’ve been wearing religiously this past year in Chicago. It reminds me fondly of the day my gay  hypothetical husband and co-worker bought a $1400 Louis Vuitton messenger bag on his entry-level salary. Why do we do these things? Not sure.  I think sometimes the labels that we buy when we live on a budget help speed the process in our minds of material success. It’s funny how this phrase which has been under the soil has blossomed to a flowered message that will symbolize the journey ahead. 

‘Poor Little Rich Girl’ represents transition. It was a philosophy of my life in New York.  So many of us were looking for short cuts, saved gift cards and tax returns to buy designer label bags, shoes and coats. Hence, ‘Poor Little Rich Girl’ became somewhat of an inside joke of not being able to stock our closets fully with designer gear yet, making sacrifices to wear those labels as if we could.

In the upcoming several months,  I will attempt to take that phrase in the opposite direction. In Chicago, I stepped away from designer label horns and embraced independent style and boutiques. I also learned how to make complex desserts and do more creative DIY projects…things I did not have time for in New York. So In essence, ‘Poor Little Rich Girl’ will be about living a different life back in New York of creativity and independence in all of life’s facets yet, with an appreciation for the big labels.

The blog will continue to showcase both cities with a primary focus on New York with highlights from Chicago. What’s in store? More Chicago gems, New York travel diaries and a reunion with ‘Pretty Gorgeous.’ Stay tuned!!

Much Love, 

Rupa

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Farewell Chicago.

Goodbye for now!

The day I arrived in Chicago in January of 2011, I remember having a panic attack in the cab to my new never-been-seen-before apartment. A dear friend and Illinois native took that panic call and kindly calmed me down. A year and a half  later, has felt like a lifetime of change and growth. 

When I think of Chicago, I think of fondly being flooded by indie culture of books, art, music and film. Each neighborhood has its own personality. There are so many creative entrepreneurs here too. Fashion is its own growing empire. The jog across Lakeshore Drive with a flawless view of the water against stunning architecture was breathtaking. It was nice to live a more laid back less intense lifestyle with more time to enjoy the city and meet new people.

My intention was to stay here forever actually but… it looks like life has other plans and I must be off to the next journey! So although I will be traveling between Chicago and other places before I venture permanently back to New York, I will be absorbing all the great last minute treasures of this city and saying goodbye for now for all the wonderful people I have met along the way who have inspired me with their kindness and amazing talents. Although the Blog will continue to run, the focus will be on New York, with highlights from Chicago.

One of my biggest desires in NY was to have my own place to call home. The dream apartment manifested itself in Chicago and the Universe granted me a large apartment with a separate balcony to enjoy good times, peace and creative projects. I actually prefer the slightly vintage apartment which has so much character. Take a peek of behind the scenes of the blog where most of the products were photographed and edited, interviews were conducted and goodies were baked. Since I am in transition, please be nice regarding the minimalist walls and furniture.

I spent most of my time in the living room with my favorite window where I would look out and gaze at the trees while writing. The faux fireplace is where a lot of products where shot and edited:)

My infamous ‘fashion couch’ where I worked on many crafting and fashion re-make-over projects. Not to mention, couch surfed.

Here’s the bedroom where I often lit incense, read books,wrote, meditated and had a frenzy trying to find something to wear. 

So cozy!


Meals and music sum of my impression of a large and peaceful dining room.

A view of the bedroom from the dining room windows.

The kitchen, where I sweated and toiled. I probably made and photographed a million desserts.

There’s a separate entrance to the balcony!

The spacious balcony was unfortunately underutilized with exception to photographing a purse. But, perfect for a table, chairs, a good book & cup of coffee.

A slightly larger bathroom would have been ideal but this was definitely functional.

The closets were to die for! Everything fit – even the shoes! Although I am in love with this apartment and very sad to leave it, I am leaving it in good hands. I had to help a gal out from the midwest looking to start her fashion career in Chicago.

 

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Goodbye April, Hello May!

Goodbye April, Hello May!

It’s been a hectic two months since I launched Fashion Couch but a very memorable exploration of Chicago while keeping in touch with my New York City roots. 

One thing I have learned is that Chicago has a strong DIY culture and there is no shortage of creative and crafty people. New Yorkers tend to be more label driven. Balancing the two will be challenging.

What else? I attended many fashion shows. It was actually nice to sit next to the runway right at the cutting edge of fashion.  I also met with creative designers such as Michelle Starbuck Amos and Marie Hayden who both specialize in gorgeous accessories. And the wonderful Amanda Rita Talia a superstar of beauty, hair and a skilled fashion designer. I probably ate half of the mint chocolate chip cookie dough I was supposed to turn into truffles for friends. Not good. 

Charlotte Coyle my favorite Irish Make-up Artist based in NYC is keeping me entertained with the latest make-up trends and mini life soap operas along her make-up journey.  With her Megan Fox lookalike  sister who just joined us from Ireland, I have a feeling that there will be no shortage of creativity, laughter and entertaining stories from ‘Pretty Gorgeous’ coming our way.

In addition,  I see more travel and partnerships coming down the road now that fashion show season is coming to an end. Perhaps a possible relocation very soon.  The look, theme and vision of the Blog will also be in store for some changes. And, the wheels in my brain are churning for a very special project that will change the scope and direction of Ellora Boutique altogether. Details soon to follow.

On a personal note, I bought a plant that I was actually able to keep alive with tender love and care.  I decided that I am going to push my traditional boundaries with fashion and beauty. At one point in NYC, I only bought clothes from Banana Republic, and today in Chicago, I rarely go there. So step one was getting a very electric blue pedicure inspired by Charlotte’s dramatic blue eye shadow. Perhaps easy for the rest of you, but bold for me. I also got a gratitude rock to be grateful for everything I have been blessed with that goes with me everywhere.

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Much Love,

Rupa

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